BACH Children and Flowers

The childhood is a very difficult stage and full of changes, both for the child and its parents. It is important to place the most significant and relevant to this stage, somehow, help both children and parents, to confront them with more awareness and wellness. Bach flowers offer a natural and safe support for these stages.

Importantly flowers help move the virtues they need, whether parents or children, but will not change the substance of any of them. A common mistake is to pretend parents

mould the personality of your children to your liking using flowers of Bach, "I want my son / daughter out ...".

 Flower essences are not miracle or that purpose. They do not replace the value of the example and the combination of firmness and sweetness are in their education. Only correct an imbalance and help the child find the best version of yourself, but do not bring anything that is not within your capabilities of learning and evolution. We must have a proper and realistic expectation that they will not transform at will, thankfully!

It is difficult for a child to cope with their emotional wounds, do not have many resources to do it and all of full. Maybe given are therefore particularly receptive to the Bach flowers and respond quickly to their effects. They put fewer barriers than older, their minds are simple, direct and clear feelings, no doubt darken. When we give Bach flower children should explain to those smaller droplets have a magic touch, maybe some magic of stars.

This is a language that we forget the past but they are still present and understood in an intuitive way with the heart rather than his head.

Bach flower remedies are 100% natural and safe for children. Those with acute symptoms, such as fear of a specific situation circumstantial jealousy by the birth of a sibling, the beginning of the nursery school, change of address, etc.., Flower remedies to react very quickly.

In case of chronic conditions, for example, psychosomatic symptoms, treatment should be longer term and include at least one parent, to break the vicious circle probably created from symptoms for a longer period of time prolonged.

To indicate the flowers to young children should be preferred to the observation of behaviour  Whether through the mother, a person who is with him or therapist. How to play?, Is annoyed when he can not put together a game as you want?, Do you lose interest easily?, Do you strip everything?, Cries and seeks refuge in someone?, Do you ask for help to achieve what is proposes?, is patient, careful, is it sensitive, is it possessive, share your game, is it really independent or dependent?. Such questions will guide us to where the child is, and what formula can prepare. Bach flower remedies are no substitute to medicines, but help stabilize the emotions that unbalance children. Recall that the allopathic and natural are two ways so different that one can not replace the other, but complementary.

We must never forget that it is the method that heals. "A little girl has decided to paint a house for his mother's birthday, in his little mind already knows all the details of the house, you just have to put on paper the best you can. Has shaped his idea of ​​what a house. It is a work of art as it is yours, every stroke has done for the love of his mother, every window, every door, have been placed in the belief that they must be there. Even if it seems crazy is the perfect house painted, is a success, little has been her all his heart and soul, his whole being.

If someone interferes with that process, correcting or trying to direct the design, the child would result in a complete loss of interest in his work, may become angry, irritated, feeling unhappy, start hating the drawing and may break. The final drawing can be recognizable to us a house but not the house of the girl. For it is imperfect, and it is a failure. It is the interpretation of the thoughts of another person, not the girl. This is the temporary failure and unhappiness: and this is what happens when we allow others to interfere with our purpose in life and implement in our minds the doubt, fear or indifference "Edward Bach.

"Happiness is to live our lives and stay true to our convictions. Doing what others tell us to do, or live and work according to the wishes of another, means that live their lives, not ours, and like the girl who lost her interest in drawing, life can get gloomy and lack of interest, and as a result our health and happiness suffer. "

 "Parenthood is a sacred duty, temporary in nature, does not understand anything but service and no obligation to return by the young. Since it must be free to develop their own way and prepare everything to fulfil the same office a few years later. Parents should especially guard against any desire to mould the young personality according to their own ideas or desires. And ..... any desire to control or conform to the young life for personal reasons is a terrible form of greed that should not be spoiled ever because if rooted in the young parent, over the years will be true tyrants. " Edward Bach.